Inspiration
Inspirational Person of the Month
Carrie Bernstein Lewis
In honor of her birthday, the Inspirational Person for the month of January is Margaret’s cousin, Carrie Lewis Bernstein. Carrie is the mother of two young sons, Samuel Benjamin and Maxwell Dylan and is currently a case manager at Cigna, a global health services company located in Minneapolis Minnesota where she resides with her husband, Matthew and their children.
Growing up in New York City and New Jersey as an only child of Margaret’s cousin Ben (who passed away in May 2009), the two second cousins bonded whenever they had the opportunity to see one another. Throughout the years, Margaret and Carrie shared many happy memories together in both New York City and California where Carrie resided while she studied physical therapy at the University of California at San Francisco. She made a point of spending much time with Margaret and her family when Margaret’s son Julian was an infant and a toddler.
Carrie has always inspired Margaret by her kindness and thoughtfulness. Carrie is one of those rare people who make the world a brighter place for others just by being. She is a true friend to all who know and love her. Through her caring and compassion, she sets an example of how to live a balanced life graced by gratitude, beauty and joy.
Inspirational Place of the Month
Albany, New York
The Inspirational place for the month of January is Albany, New York. The State capital of New York State has much to offer residents and tourists alike including several museums, a top notch symphony orchestra, resident ice hockey team, and many fine restaurants. Albany is the center of the Capital Area, which also includes Schenectady and Troy. Less than an hours drive from Vermont and Massachusetts, Albany is a main stop on the major artists touring circuit. Among its many attractions is Washington Park, which hosts many events including the annual Tulip Festival during Mother’s Day weekend and the Egg Center for the Performing Arts. The Empire Plaza, located in the center of downtown Albany, hosts an ice skating rink in the winter months and includes an underground concourse boasting a weekly farmer’s market. Margaret is continually inspired by the juxtaposition of modern and 19th century architecture in downtown Albany during her weekly walking breaks from teaching music lessons. Please visit www.albany.com for further information on New York State’s capital city.
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Margaret's Inspirations:
Many of Margaret's musical compositions and songs are inspired by the important people, furred friends and places in her life. In addition to honoring one place and one person each month, she has a number of ongoing inspirations that she would like to share with you...
People:

Julian Jacobs
Julian Jacobs is Margaret’s fourteen year old son and a daily source of inspiration for Margaret. Julian not only was the primary inspiration behind Margaret ‘s “On the Threshold of Change” album of instrumental compositions for flute and piano, but has also helped to inspire many of Margaret’s other compositions and songs in a variety of genres. Julian also gives Margaret inspiration in the teaching of her SAFE through the Arts program.
Julian is currently a seventh grader at the Hawthorne Valley Waldorf School in Columbia County, New York where he plays violin in the school fiddle club and timpani in his class orchestra. Julian has also been playing drums and percussion in the Empire State Youth Orchestra Junior Percussion Ensemble for the past three years. He performed percussion on Margaret’s “Bricks in the Wall” album, In addition, Julian has also appeared in several productions as an actor during the past year including Wickersham Brother in a community production of Seusical the Musical, Brutus in a class performance of Julius Ceaser, and as the piano player in Margaret’s “Cinderella Falling” music video.
When not on stage, Julian has many other interests including basketball, skiing, drawing and reading. He also enjoys spending time with his many animals.

Bunty Kelley Bernstein
The Inspirational Person for the month of May is Margaret’s mother, Bunty Kelley Bernstein, a retired dancer and ballet instructor residing in the town of Garden City on Long Island, New York. Bunty’s professional career included years of dancing with the Sadlers Wells (the Royal Ballet) in London, England under the direction of Dame Ninette de Valois as well as assisiting and performing in many of choreographer Agnes de Mille's productions in the United States. Bunty also served on the Dance Faculty of Adelphi University in Garden City, New York and the Long Island High School for the Arts (BOCES Cultural Arts) in Syosset, New York. Widow of the late Harry Bernstein, former chairman and professor emeritus of Dance at Adelphi University, she is currently a Board Member of Azalea Blossom, Incorporated and a volunteer at the Cathedral Nursery School.

Margaret Craske (Nov. 26th 1892 - Feb. 18th, 1990)
Margaret Bernstein's Godmother and namesake, Margaret Craske, was an acclaimed ballet teacher who introduced Margaret Bernstein's parents to one another. Both of Margaret Bernstein's parents had been ballet students of Margaret Craske. Margaret Bernstein’s mother, Bunty Kelley studied with her as a girl growing up in London, and Margaret Bernstein's father, Harry Bernstein, had been a student of Miss Craske at the Juilliard School in New York City. Margaret Craske also became a permanent fixture at the Metropolitan Opera House, where she taught ballet until she almost got run over by a New York City taxicab at the age of ninety-four. She spent the last years of her life residing at the Meher Center in Myrtle Beach at South Carolina where she entertained guests with her stories marked of her dry wit.
Margaret Craske was definitely one of the most influential people in Margaret Bernstein's life. Through her weekly contact, she not only gave an appreciation of the spiritual world, but also taught what it meant to aspire to excellence in all things. She was not only one of the world's most excellent teachers, but a strong dynamic woman with a sense of humor, a tenacious code of moral and work ethic, and a fiery personality. Although she passed away twenty years ago this month at age ninety-seven, her memory lives vibrantly on in the hearts and minds of those who knew and loved her.

Catherine Furey (Nana)
Since Margaret was an infant, Catherine Furey was known to her as “Nana”, which was also how she was known to over a half dozen of biological grandchildren. Catherine, who became a long-time family friend and adopted relative, had been a main caretaker for Margaret while her parents taught ballet at Adelphi University. She played an integral part in Margaret’s physical development and spiritual development and was there was momentous occasions from the birth and death of Margaret’s brother to Margaret’s high school graduation. A born Irish woman and devout Catholic until the end, Catherine was instrumental in introducing Margaret to prayer at an early age. She use to love to hear the Irish tunes and especially "Danny Boy" which Margaret gratefully had the opportunity to play for her on her flute two days before her passing at the age of 110. Catherine made history upon her passing in November 2003 when her picture was on the cover of Newsday for being the oldest person living on Long Island.

Katharina Forbes Dunlop - (Aunt Bengie)
Born July 14th, 1892 in Sussex County England, Katharina Forbes Dunlop was the oldest of three girls. She had a long and inspired career both as a writer and as an educator. Katharina's inspiration for writing poetry and short stories not only came from her mother who was herself a writer and an artist, but also from her encounters with the British author Joseph Conrad . The stories she has of making rice pudding for Mr. Conrad and other tales can be found in her book "Winchelsea Memories" which is based on her childhood growing up in the quaint village by the English Channel in Sussex county, England Miss Dunlop not only taught English in the prestigious Queens Gate Academy in London, but also served as the headmistress of Stocks, the Oldest girls boarding school in England. In 1972 she sold the school to Victor Lownes who, along with his wife Marilyn developed a friendship that lasted the rest of her life. Even after selling her school, this remarkable lady continued tutoring English and Latin privately in her London flat until the age of 97. In her later years, a scholarship was established in her name to help further the career of a young woman in the arts.
Margaret's beloved Great Aunt, known affectionately to family members as "Aunt Bengie" and to most of the world as "KFD", was a few months shy of 101 years old when she passed away on March 15, 1993. Margaret has many fond memories of times they spent together during Margaret's many visits to England. which included many outings to the theatre in London together. She also made the trip to America to attend Margaret's high school graduation at the age of 87. She was not only a great source of inspiration to Margaret but also to her "girls" as she affectionately called her former pupils and to everyone else who had the blessing of knowing her. She shared Margaret's passion and interest in people, good literature (especially novels by Elizabeth Goudge), the arts, and anything intrinsically beautiful.

Harry Bernstein - Margaret's Father
Places:

The Meher Baba Center, Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
The Meher Spiritual Center, located in North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. Founded in the 1940’s at Meher Baba’s request, Meher Spiritual Center is a retreat for “rest, meditation, and the renewal of the spiritual life.” The approximate five hundred acres that comprise Meher Center is home to hundreds of species of birds and other animals. Definitely one of Margaret’s favorite and most inspirational places to visit since she was a teenager, the Meher Center is also the home to the annual Youth Sahavas (weeklong retreat for teenagers), which Margaret founded in 1991. To learn more, please go to www.mehercenter.org

Samuel P. Taylor State Park, Lagunitas, California
Located in West Marin County, California, approximately one hour north of San Francisco, Samuel P. Taylor Park contains trails of rolling hills and redwood forests. It is open to the public for day use and for camping. Group and equestrian camping is also available. For information, call the ranger station at 415-488-9897 or see: www.openspacecouncil.org/camp/Taylor

Point Reyes National Seashore, Inverness, California
Also, located in west Marin County, this national park consists of hundreds of miles of wildlife including several beaches, woods and tide pools. There are three visitors’ stations and lighthouse with perfect views for whale watching season. Programs include tours and guided nature walks. Backpacking with a permit is also available. For information, please call the headquarters at 415-669-1250 or see www.pointreyes.net

Edmund Niles Huyck Preserve, Rensselaerville, NY
Edmund Niles Huyck Preserve, Rensselaerville, New York. Located in the Helderberg Mountains in upstate New York, this special preserve includes a lake, a pond, and a waterfall as well as miles of wooded trails. Although there are no camping accommodations available, there is a bed and breakfast and excellent restaurant in town. For more, call 797-3440 or visit www.huyckpreserve.org
Furred Friends:
Current:

Oliver Rufus Doggie Dog

Little Bit

Reba
Former:

Bob The Rooster
Best known for his stellar appearance in “Cinderella Falling”, Robert E. Rooster (AKA “Bob the Rooster”) was born and raised in rural Greene County, New York until he was adapted by singer-songwriter Margaret Bernstein. After his many adventures escaping from his rival, Smokey, Margaret brought him into her home and nursed him back to health. It was then that Margaret discovered Bob’s musical talents and decided to cast him as her dancing partner in her sophomore music video. Much of his success on the shoot is attributed to his regular practice sessions with Margaret as well as his natural talent. Bob is definitely a rooster who knew how to tweak on the beat! His other pastimes included indulging in Ocean Spray Cranberries, listening to classical music on the radio, and chilling out with his girlfriend, Sophia.
To see Bob the Rooster in the Cinderella Falling music video, please click here

Romeo (AKA Romeo Herbie James Doggie-Dog)
Romeo was born on March 29, 1992. He was given to Kersten Dryden as a present for her sixteenth birthday on June 18th, 1992, from her boyfriend at the time, mike Rome (hence the name Romeo). Romeo grew up on the Dryden Farm in Feura Bush, NY, and lived there most of his life. Carol and Richard Mannis lovingly took care of Romeo for several years, until their move West. Although Margaret first became friends with Romeo in June of 1984, it was in March of 2002 that Romeo officially became a member of Margaret and Julian's household where he resided until his passing.
Romeo was a very social and dynamic being. He became friends with all the dogs and cats and people on the farm, and in his younger days enjoyed running behind with the "big dogs" during hikes and trial rides. He made his presence known at virtually every social gathering and was well liked and known by many. He was a very musical dog possessing much charisma and stage presence. He loved to sing while Margaret played the flute, often hitting the correct pitches, and would jump on stage to accompany her during performances at large gatherings. In fact, his picture appeared in the "White Horse Journal" after one such performance in the mid 1990s.
Although Romeo suffered a couple of accidents, which left him partly paralyzed, he never lost his spirit or his zest for life.

Jessie (pictured with Romeo)
A boy cat named after a favorite female student in Arizona, Jessie was rescued and adapted by Margaret in San Francisco, California a week after the big Earth Quake in 1989. Jessie lived with Margaret and family until his passing in November 2002.

Rosie
"Rosita", a beautiful Arabian mare, came into Margaret's life in the summer of 1993 when she was living on a horse ranch in California. Rosie followed Margaret out to the farm in Feura Bush, New York where they enjoyed many long trail rides together before she passed on October 8th, 1995. "Awakening Hearts and Souls Dance" is dedicated to Rosie's canter off to join the Beloved One.

Timba (AKA Sara Timbalena Jeana Doggie Dog)
Timba hails from Northern California. Although we do not know her exact origin or date of birth, we do know that she was rescued from the Marin County Animal Shelter pregnant with six babies. We first met Timba with her four surviving puppies short after she had given birth in the backyard of the neighbor who had rescued her. Timba took motherhood seriously and when she was sent to us before she was ready to leaver her children, she visited them daily by swimming in our backyard creek through the tunnel that ran under the road. Her mothering instincts carried on years later in the way that she nurtured and protected her dear friend Romeo and also the kittens who came to live with us one Spring. I admired her perseverance and patience as she let them "nurse."
Timba was a very loving, sweet and gentle dog who loved to dig, enjoyed long walks, and especially loved music. A very talented musician, she could beat in time with her tail and always sang along with Margaret's flute playing. We still love and miss her very much.

Tabitha & Pumpkin
Pumpkin, this fluffy orange cat showed up in Margaret's life just before Halloween in 1987 while she was living in Arizona and became a dedicated favorite until and beyond his passing on the farm in Feura Bush, New York on August 9th, 1995 (the same day that Jerry Garcia passed away). His memory was the inspiration for "Surrender to a Safe Place" found on the "Threshold" album.
Tabitha, Pumpkin’s sister, is the longest living of any of Margaret’s furred friends. Born in Arizona, she has also lived in Northern California and in upstate New York. A very friendly and social cat, Tabitha's claim to fame is her solo invitations to brunches and Salmon Dinners! She is currently enjoying her retirement in the old farmhouse in upstate, New York.

Thomas and Muriella
Born on March 9th in California, 1999, these two beautiful bunnies were favorites in Margaret’s household until their passing. Muriella, the daring female, disappeared in October 2002. Thomas, the very social bunny that was as soft as velvet and as big as a dog (really!) and even thought himself as a dog, passed away suddenly on July 4th, 2003. Like all of our animal friends who have since departed, we miss them terribly.

Sheba
Sheba came into Margaret’s life when she moved back to the farm in Feura Bush, new York in the fall of 1994. This Lab -Shepherd was a barn dog until she officially Adopted Margaret a year later. As with most of Margaret's furred fans, Sheba made the transatlantic trip to California and back to upstate New York where she passed away at the veritable age of fifteen in November 2002. |